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5 SIGNS THAT YOU SHOULD INVOLVE A LAWYER IN YOUR CHILD CUSTODY CASE

  • By Admin, Tuesday, September 5, 2017 10:02 AM
  • 17 Sep, 2018
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Divorce is difficult enough without having to worry about who gets custody and when visitation can be had. But the reality is that, if you have kids, these are certainly a couple of things you'll have to deal with as the divorce process unfolds. Following are five signs that you should consider hiring an experienced lawyer to represent you in your child custody case.

CONVERSATIONS ALWAYS SEEM TO TURN INTO ARGUMENTS

Chances are that you'll have many conversations with your spouse while trying to come to a child custody agreement. And you will have to talk to one another about coordinating play dates, school functions, sports events and other activities that the kids are involved in.

If these conversations tend to turn into arguments and you can't seem to agree on anything from food choices to how free time is spent, it's a good idea to consider hiring a lawyer to act as a buffer and help the negotiation process progress. You'll have less conflict to worry about and more leverage to rely on while working out your custody and visitation schedule.

CURRENT AGREEMENTS AREN'T BEING MET

Another good reason to get an experienced lawyer involved in your child custody case is if your current arrangements aren't being met by your spouse. If the kids should be dropped off at your home every Sunday evening and they don't show up until the next day, it's a sign that your spouse is acting in defiance and may not intend to adhere to your agreement long-term.

Having a reliable attorney by your side will help ensure that your agreements are being upheld and that you don't end up having to spend time worrying about when you'll see your kids again.

THE KIDS ARE BEING PUT IN THE MIDDLE

While your children should have a clear understanding of the child custody and visitation arrangements you've agreed upon, they shouldn't have to worry about disputes between their parents about where the children should be spending their time.

If your kids come home and start gossiping about your spouse or telling you negative things that have been said about you, it's a sign that you need some professional help to diffuse the situation. You should also seek legal counsel if you notice that the kids are stressed out about making sure your custody and visitation agreements are being met by each parent.

YOU JUST DON'T FEEL GOOD ABOUT THE OPTIONS OFFERED

Most likely, you and your spouse have specific custody and visitation options in mind. And if your spouse isn't willing to budge when it comes to the options they lay out on the table, you may want to consider hiring a lawyer to represent you throughout the negotiation process.

Even if you can't get your spouse to negotiate on one small aspect of your custody and visitation options, it's a sign that they will resist in future negotiations or make negotiating nearly impossible overall. As the kids age, visitation and custody agreements may have to be renegotiated. If you're having a problem negotiating now, have a lawyer step in now to help set a precedence for future negotiations.

YOUR SPOUSE HAS HIRED THEIR OWN LAWYER

Don't let yourself get caught in court representing yourself when your spouse has a lawyer to back them up. At the first sign that your spouse has hired a lawyer to assist them in the custody and visitation negotiation process, you should do the same thing to ensure that the playing field remains even.

Experienced divorce and child custody lawyers have a clear understanding of the laws, which could put you in a risky position if you haven't been to law school yourself. They may use a law or technique you've never heard of to win their client the custody and visitation agreement that the client wants. Protect yourself by making sure you're represented by someone who knows the laws inside and out.

For more information about how an experienced attorney can help you win your child custody and visitation case, contact James M. Whorley to schedule an initial consultation. We look forward to serving your best interests.

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  • Terminology - In Texas, custody is interchangeable with the term conservatorship. While the term conservatorship is used in many other states, it is generally associated with anyone other than direct descendants. However, in Texas conservatorship includes children as well.
  • Acronyms - There are several terms in Texas child custody cases that are merely referred to by their acronyms. While these acronyms are not difficult to differentiate, having a working knowledge of them can eliminate common confusion. For example, JMC stands for Joint Managing Conservators.
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Child custody can often be one of the most contentious battles in a divorce settlement. For more information on child custody laws in Texas, call James M. Whorley at 254-742-0420.

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